My cousin Orlando "Dong" de Vera invited me and my family to join them in a traditional Christmas Day lunch with another de Vera, Josie. I learned that Josie and I are also relatives as our names appear in the 8-generation family tree of the Serafica's (beginning with Sudiano Serafica in 1720).
Josie holds my granddaughter, Natalie. Her husband, Bonnie Flores (from La Union) is at the center and rightmost is the music wizard and wholesome entertainer, Dong.
Bonnie and Josie are such a warm and generous hosts. They took turns serving the guests and they made us feel so home sick after seeing all the native "handaan".
Just look at those delicacies!
Dong pulled out his guitar and brought the crowd to nostalgia singing, "Pasko na Naman", "Ang Pasko ay sumapit." I was hoping someone would recall the lyrics of "Galikin, galiken, ka pastorisan..."
Josie's brother, Fred, wearing a mustard-yellow jacket, came in from Oregon to join the gathering. Fred has not been home to Mangaldan since he left in 1975. He is looking forward to finally visit his hometown in the next three years.
The matriarch of the family is Tia Yayao (married to the late Guillermo de Vera). She was glad to hear me greet her Merry Christmas in Pangasinan. Seated to her left is Carlos Cruz, Dong's father-in-law, Mita Cruz-De Vera, Dong's wife, my grandaughter Natalie and Maridel Hernandez-De Guzman, my wife.
Bonnie's career start in Canada in 1978 is a story worth writing about and can be an inspiration to all of us migrants. Despite being a established professional (civil engineer) back in the Philippines, Bonnie went through the entry ladder start as a welder and made his way up to be a much sought after consultant nowadays. He says hard work, perseverance, solid values, prayers and a strong family relationship are keys to eventual success.
That was one great Christmas Day gathering! Thank you, Bonnie and Josie.




